A New Kind of Conversation About Dentistry, Leadership & the Life You Want

Decades in dentistry taught me one truth: your well-being matters just as much as your practice. If you’re seeking clarity, humanity, and real guidance in this next chapter, you’re in the right place.

A Guide With Four Decades of Experience — And a
Heart for the Human Side of Dentistry

After 42 years in the operatory, I’ve seen every version of this profession — its pressure, its beauty, its exhaustion, and its potential to transform lives.
Now, my work is focused on helping dentists:

  • Reconnect with meaning
  • Lead with confidence and compassion
  • Strengthen their mindset
  • Build a life and career they truly enjoy


 

Coach, Speaker,
Author & Mentor

My approach is simple and grounded: honest dialogue, gentle humor, deep listening, and practical insight.

You don’t have to figure this chapter out alone.

Who Do I Work With

Dentists who want more than survival.


Dentists who want clarity, direction, and a life that feels aligned again.

Dentists who are:

    • Navigating leadership challenges
    • Feeling overwhelmed or stretched thin
    • Rethinking what success means
    • Rebuilding confidence or motivation
    • Searching for a more human, intentional approach to their work

 

If you’re ready for honest conversations, steady guidance, and support from someone who understands both the profession and the person behind it — I’m here to help.

Ways to Work Together

Coaching Mentorship for Dentists

A small, supportive group for dentists who want honest conversations about the realities of our profession. Through weekly facilitated discussions, guest expert insights, and a monthly one-on-one coaching session.

 

Speaking & Workshops

Bring clarity, connection, and insight to your next team training or event. Topics include leadership, team and patient communication, mindset, burnout, and the human side of dentistry

 

Facebook Community

A warm, judgment-free community where dentists share reflections, stories, and encouragement.

 

Weekly Reflections & Conversations

Every week, I share short videos and posts about the mindset, humanity, and everyday leadership that dentistry requires.

Expect

  • Honest stories
  • Gentle reminders
  • Perspective shifts
  • Moments of humor
  • Encouragement for tough days

Testimonials

David Aldaz
When I look back at where I was when I first met you compared to where I am now, there is no question that you have played a meaningful part in that growth. You have challenged me, encouraged me, believed in me, and —probably most importantly —you have shown me what it looks like to genuinely care about another person’s growth. You have influenced me far beyond dentistry. Yes, I’ve learned an incredible amount from you clinically, but the lessons that have stuck with me the most have been about how to approach dentistry, how to treat people, how to carry yourself, and how to continually strive to become better. You’ve given me perspectives that I know will stay with me throughout my career. There have been plenty of moments during residency when I’ve questioned myself or wondered whether I was where I was supposed to be. Having people like you in my corner has made a tremendous difference. Your willingness to invest your time, knowledge, and energy into me is something I will never take for granted. Thank you for believing in me, challenging me, teaching me, and being someone I can genuinely look up to. I’m incredibly grateful our paths crossed, and I hope that someday I can have the kind of positive impact on another young dentist that you have had on me.
David Aldaz
David Aldaz
David Aldaz
Dr Tae H Kwon
Alan’s presentation was engaging, thought provoking, and incredibly relevant to the challenges we face as clinicians and practice leaders. His ability to combine real-life experiences with practical lessons kept our group engaged throughout the evening and generated some great discussion. Our members truly enjoyed having him. I would enthusiastically recommend Alan to any study club, dental organization, or professional group. He is the kind of speaker who leaves an impact long after the presentation is over, and I would welcome him back to our group without hesitation.
Dr Tae H Kwon
Director,NH Study Club for Excellence in Dentistry
Dr Tae H Kwon
Dr Tae H Kwon
Director,NH Study Club for Excellence in Dentistry
Dr. Alexis Gersten
I’d like to let you all know what it’s like to have the pleasure of having a coaching call with Dr. Stern. As I navigate my next chapter outside of clinical dentistry, I’ve been trying to figure out what comes next. Alan helped me see a path forward, make a valuable connection, and, perhaps most importantly, clear my mind so I could focus on the next steps. Alan is incredibly positive and encouraging, and he speaks from his own experience as a dentist and practice owner. That perspective made our conversation especially meaningful. He understands the challenges of dentistry and the many possibilities that exist beyond the clinical practice. Sometimes, you don’t need someone to tell you what to do. You need someone who can listen, ask the right questions, and help you see possibilities you might not have considered. Alan did exactly that. Thank you, Alan, for your generosity, insight, and encouragement. I’m excited to put our conversation into action and I am so grateful you you helped put me on this path. If you’re looking for thoughtful coaching from someone who genuinely wants to help you move forward, I highly recommend connecting with him.
Dr Alexis Gersten
Dr. Alexis Gersten
Dr Alexis Gersten
Dr. Linda Hippler
Working with Dr. Stern has been transformative for both my personal growth and my career as a dentist and practice owner. His insight, coaching, and ability to challenge my thinking have helped me lead with greater clarity, confidence, and purpose.
Dr. Linda Hippler
Dr. Linda Hippler
Dr. Linda Hippler
RKH
When I reached a crossroads in my dental profession, I was fortunate enough to have the guidance and wisdom of Alan to help me navigate this journey. He has played an instrumental and key role in my successful outcome of acquiring my own practice, and I couldn’t be more grateful for his involvement in my career!
RKH
RKH
RKH
Dr. S. Z.
Alan has been instrumental in helping me navigate some challenging stages of my career. As an associate without family members in the field, I often questioned whether I was making the right decisions. Alan helped me clarify what truly matters to me at this stage of my career, easing much of the anxiety that comes with starting out as a dentist. After feeling unhappy in several practices, he helped me gain perspective on my short- and long-term priorities and align them with my personal life, ultimately leading me to a practice that made me love dentistry again. Thank you, Alan!
Dr. S. Z.
Dr. S. Z.
Dr. S. Z.
Dr. Hoda Kowsari
Conversations with Alan are natural, honest, and quite spot-on, towards a goal with actionable items. It doesn’t feels transactional or like he’s doing it just for the money —he genuinely cares to outcomes and progress. He’s flexible in various ways not just scheduling, &open to different approaches, also resourceful at connecting us with the right people to get past bottlenecks.
Dr. Hoda Kowsari
Dr. Hoda Kowsari
Dr. Hoda Kowsari
Dr. J. M., Practice Owner
Talking with Alan helped me slow down, breathe, and see myself clearly again. His mentorship changed how I lead, how I think, and how I show up for my team.
Dr. J. M., Practice Owner
Dr. J. M., Practice Owner
Dr. J. M., Practice Owner
Dr. G. A.
When I think of 2025 and how much I’ve grown professionally, I think of the impact you made. I am very thankful for your coaching
Dr G. A.
Dr. G. A.
Dr G. A.

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